Communication is key

As cliché as it sounds, communication really is key in maintaining a healthy relationship. In both friendships and romantic conquests, make time to listen to each other and pay attention to how you’re both feeling.

Talking with your partner can help you to feel connected and boost your bond. It also means you’re more likely to be able to respect each other’s needs and boundaries.

If something’s bothering you, get it off your chest! Air out any issues before they snowball into something bigger. If you’re not comfortable with something, let them know. If you set this example, they should give the same grace in return.

Communication becomes the be-all or end-all if you’re in a long-distance relationship at uni. Like it or not, phone calls and texts will soon make up the majority of your relationship. Scheduling in the time to talk can help you to feel closer to them and soften those long-distance blues.

Set realistic expectations

Starting a relationship at uni is exciting. It can feel all-consuming – especially in those first few months of the honeymoon period. Whether you want to see them every hour of the day or not, make sure you’re not forgetting other aspects of your life.

Don’t expect one person to be everything to you. Find fulfilment in other areas – like your friends, family or hobbies. Don’t neglect your saxophone lessons for your situationship.

Things evolve. We need different people in our lives for different things. The friend you call to drag you to the party may be different to the friend you need to provide the ice cream for a duvet day.

You may enjoy going on dates and creating memories with your partner. But is there anything better than having a laughing fit with your best friend? Focus on building all relationships at uni – not just romantic ones.

Eight Tips For Healthy Relationships at University